It's unfortunate that the majority of girls these days are indecisive, and the shocking part is I have never seen a guy (that I know of) who would be interested in marrying one.
I had the opportunity to ask a young woman why she had chosen the specific course she was taking at the university and what her plans were for when she graduated and her response surprised me: "I don't know for now. I asked another, well, "after degree maybe I will get married and have kids that all".
You can only imagine the degree of ignorance they had to deal with. It's so bad that some girls just say whatever when asked what kind of food they prefer when they're asked out on a date. Let me tell you girls, no guy likes an indecisive lady.
Ladies, there are other things that guys vehemently dislike but won't voice their complaints about. Some highlighted points are listed below:
1. Being "Perfumy":
One of the things that draws a guy to a woman is her scent. I can recall dating a girl primarily for her scent—I adored her cologne, winks. However, some girls are overly assertive and overdo this, which irritates most guys. It would not be a good idea for a guy to visit a girl and then leave her apartment smelling like her. It's best for girls to keep things simple.
2. Being overly Desperate:
A guy will be scared and turned off by someone who is overly desperate. Guys prefer independent women who only ask for assistance when things get out of control. However, some women rely on their men before they ever need it, and some even start performing housework and laundry for him. While I don't think this is wrong, everything needs to be done with moderation.
3. Attempting to Change Him:
If you really love your partner, you will accept him for who he is. Of course, there should be room for improvement, but any changes you make must be done so lovingly and not in an obligatory or forced manner. However, when the woman forces the adjustments and prioritizes them, it becomes a turn off for the guy.
4. Using Jealousy as an Instrument to get to Him:
this is one of the ways modern women are pushing guys away, especially those who have a thing for them. They start chatting to other guys, calling some guys nicknames, posting an unidentified attractive guy's photo on social media, and so on. Ladies, tell me how you'll feel if your guy starts making out with other women. Stop this act, I'm sure it's not entertaining to watch!
5. Nagging:
Generally speaking, guys find it difficult to put up with a lady who nags. When a woman constantly criticizes a guy for everything he does, including failing to message him while he was online or failing to call her when he should have, you are turning him off.
6. Putting on excessive Makeup:
Given the state of the fashion industry nowadays, I doubt that our lovely ladies could go a day without donning makeup for a function or event. Some people abuse the fashion accessory to the point where they wear it right before bed. I once asked a female friend of mine to go without wearing a lot of makeup for a week, saying that if she could, I would buy her a gift. She did so for the first two days, but then told me she couldn't because she felt less beautiful (inferiority complex). In the name of makeup, I've witnessed some women transform into clowns. Ladies, try this sparingly and watch your man adore you more.
7. Always Leaving the Bills for the Guy to Pay:
Although the girl may be hesitant to accept payment, her offer to cover the costs demonstrates to the man that she is making an investment in the relationship. However, some girls approach this carelessly, which has led to numerous dependency issues.